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March 23rd, 2012 // 9:03 am @

Q.  I’m not too sure if you’ll be able to help me but I do need some desperate advice. I’ve recently been doing nude modeling for an art class and last night “I came standing to attention” mid-way through. It’s incredibly unprofessional and I’m sure no one signed up for that! I’m really worried it […]

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March 16th, 2012 // 2:16 pm @

Q.  I have heard that anal sex can be good, but I am scared to try. A.  The good part about the anus is that there are millions of pleasure-providing nerve endings, but the bad part is there is no natural lubrication.  Anal sex can also be painful upon entry.  My two best pieces of […]

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March 16th, 2012 // 1:08 pm @

Q.  When my boyfriend stimulates my g-spot I tense up before I am able to orgasm because I am scared to pee on him.  Is this normal? A.  The urge to pee is normal, as is the fear of doing so.  Rest assured, neither the woman nor the man is capable of peeing during orgasm.  […]

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March 16th, 2012 // 11:49 am @

Q.  I think I lost my orgasm.  What can I do? A.  Where did you lose it?  (Just a little sexpert humor) It is possible for your desires and body responses to change depending on so many things; vaginal arousal, dryness, medication, sexual boredom, stress, etc.  The first few are easy to cure.  Lack of […]

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March 16th, 2012 // 10:45 am @

Q.  I am pregnant and have zero sex drive.  Help! A.  Pregnant sex is supposed to be extremely erotic and pleasurable for both you and your partner.  Unless the doctor has instructed you not to have sex, there is no reason you shouldn’t explore and enjoy your sexuality well into your third trimester.  Most find […]

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March 9th, 2012 // 3:42 pm @

Q.  My man takes forever to orgasm when I’m performing oral favors on him.  HELP! A.  Add more foreplay before you start to give him head.  Make sure he’s really turned on.  Let him know what you plan to do to him for the rest of the night, outside of the oral.  Also, proceed with […]

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March 9th, 2012 // 11:15 am @

Q.  I am self-conscious about giving my new boyfriend head.  I think it’s gross and I have little experience.  Can you help? A.  Have a talk with your man about his needs and desires.  There are a small percentage of men that prefer penetrative sex over oral stimulation.  You may get lucky and find that […]

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March 9th, 2012 // 10:36 am @

Q.  I have a horrible gag reflex.  Do you have any techniques or products you can suggest? A.  One way to naturally suppress the gag reflex is to relax your throat muscles and breathe through your nose.  We sell good head, which is a gel that relaxes the gag reflex when swallowed approximately five minutes […]

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March 8th, 2012 // 4:00 pm @

Q.  My boyfriend wants to try a strap-on.  I am comfortable with our sexuality, but I don’t know what kind or type to try.  Any ideas? A.  A lot of heterosexual couples are experimenting with anal play.  I’m assuming you mean he wants you to penetrate him.  We have a lot of different strap on […]

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March 2nd, 2012 // 7:07 pm @

  Q. My boyfriend is large. So large, it’s painful to have sex. Is there anything you can suggest? A.  Some men are larger than others and some even larger than the others. I would suggest you make sure you are fully aroused before having sex. Have him perform oral sex on you and engage […]

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