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February 10th, 2012 // 8:44 am @

Q.  My boyfriend brought home a Kama Sutra book and said he wants to try some new positions.  I’m not limber enough and I feel uncomfortable trying some of the positions.  What should I do? A.  Spice is the variety of life!  But, the sentiment must be mutual.  I don’t suggest you try nor do […]

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February 3rd, 2012 // 4:23 pm @

Q. My pussy “farts” is that normal and if so what can I do to make it stop? A.  The “fart” you are referring to is perfectly normal. It occurs when air is forced into the vagina during sex. You can try positions that are slower, that will cause less air to be forced into […]

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February 3rd, 2012 // 3:27 pm @

Q. Is semen fattening? A. A typical ejaculation fills up about one teaspoon; the actual amount is determined by a man’s age (younger men usually make more semen), when he last ejaculated, and how long he’s aroused before ejaculating, etc.  Each teaspoon of ejaculate has about 5 – 7 calories and some 200 – 500 million […]

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February 3rd, 2012 // 3:23 pm @

Q.  What’s a polite way to ask my partner to shave? A. My answer is don’t ask, Just Do It! Take an erotic bath or shower together. Light candles, dim the lights; the whole nine. Let them know you’ll be their sexy barber for the evening. Just be careful!  You probably won’t get a happy […]

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January 27th, 2012 // 4:36 pm @

Q. After sex I always experience a burning feeling.  Should I be worried? Aside from the presence of any STDs, you might simply not be using enough lube.  It is better to be slippery and safe than sore and sorry.  We offer several different types of lube on the site, ToyClosetNYC.com.  There is water based […]

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January 27th, 2012 // 12:37 pm @

Q.  My boyfriend of three years wants to have a threesome, but I am nervous.  Is there any advice you can give me? A.  Don’t do it if you are not completely comfortable!  As a matter of fact, don’t do anything in the bedroom that you aren’t completely comfortable with.  I suggest you have a […]

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January 27th, 2012 // 8:38 am @

Q.  After having my third child, I completely lost my libido.  My husband constantly makes reference to my baby weight.  What should I do? A.  Loss of libido is very common after childbirth.  As long as you are still willing do have sex, but you just don’t have the desire, then there is an easy […]

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January 20th, 2012 // 4:04 pm @

Q. My boyfriend’s penis is really large and I can feel it in my stomach when we are having sex.  Is there a possibility he can damage something inside of me? A.  Technically no, but he can cause pain and shift birth control devices.  I think what’s more important is that the two of you […]

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January 20th, 2012 // 2:04 pm @

Q. I’ve heard all about the “g-spot” orgasm, but I’ve never had one.  Are there any special techniques or positions that I should try with my partner? A. The g-spot orgasm can be extremely pleasurable and in some cases causes the woman to ejaculate, or squirt.  The trick to stimulate the g-spot manually is to […]

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January 13th, 2012 // 10:00 am @

Q. Dear Sexpert,  I am a big woman and my man is very skinny.  Are there any positions you suggest? A. There are countless positions you and your man can try.  I’ll list a few, feel free to check past blog entries for some sexy options, and also try “RIDE ‘EM COWGIRL”-available on our site.  […]

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