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August 10th, 2012 // 5:52 pm @

“Soaking the Bed: One Orgasm at a Time”   A lot of women wonder after orgasm, “did I just pee on myself?”  No, that’s not pee, that’s called “female ejaculation” (yes, we can do it too!)  Women produce between 2 tbsps and 2 cups of “gspot fluid” that we either push out or get pushed […]

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July 3rd, 2012 // 12:15 pm @

Q.  After I have an orgasm I get really sensitive.  Sometimes I want to orgasm again, but I don’t know how. A.  After an orgasm, many people become sensitive to direct stimulation.  In order to peak again, you should continue stimulation, directly or indirectly, using whatever type of pressure you can handle.  Once your body […]

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May 24th, 2012 // 6:39 pm @

Q.  I want to have a threesome with my partner.  Well, actually, I would like to watch her have sex with another woman.  Do you think this will ruin our relationship?  We are lesbians, by the way. A.  I think you should seriously consider whether your bond is strong enough to withstand an additional person.  […]

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May 23rd, 2012 // 6:27 pm @

Q. My man and I are real freaks in the bedroom, but can’t seem to think of anything else to spice it up! Do you have any suggestions?! A. Have you tried bondage or role play? Have a talk about your fantasies and act one out the next time you two get intimate. Your bedroom […]

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May 22nd, 2012 // 6:23 pm @

Q: I’m messing w this guy and as soon as he puts a freaking condom on he gets soft! WTH?! It’s so frustrating. So I was wondering if you have anything that can help with that. Pppleasssee help!!! A: I would suggest either “pro-long spray”. It’s basically Viagra in a spray form and it helps […]

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May 14th, 2012 // 12:11 pm @

To have your question anonymously featured, emal us at Sexpert@toyclosetnyc.com Q. Will a threesome ruin my relationship? A. That is a very loaded question. (Note, this person did not provide their sex or the sex of the added partner) I will answer as if you are a woman, worried about the potential issues with adding […]

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April 27th, 2012 // 10:12 pm @

Q.  I’m single and I haven’t even dated in a year. I don’t even know where to go to meet a man.  Do you have any suggestions? A. Stop looking!  When you look, you’ll never find what you’re looking for. Sometimes love finds us in the strangest places. Get out of the house, dress the […]

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April 27th, 2012 // 10:10 pm @

Q. I caught my fiancé in the bed with another woman. I still love her, but I don’t know if I’ll ever trust her again. A. You probably won’t ever trust her again. That doesn’t mean the relationship is over. It will definitely be a long road uphill from here. Find out why she cheated. […]

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April 13th, 2012 // 12:37 pm @

Q.  I have no sex drive. Is there something I can do? A. Since you didn’t offer a possible reason, I will address a few common reasons for decrease in sex drive.  There are several things that could be the cause of our sex drive’s disappearance. Stress is a huge culprit. There is also sexual […]

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April 13th, 2012 // 11:22 am @

Q.  My husband wants me to pay attention orally to his back door. Is this normal? A.  Normal is relative. I wouldn’t say anything is abnormal, but people are entitled to boundaries. If you don’t feel comfortable stimulating his back door orally, would you try a finger? A toy? The back door for men and […]

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