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The Morning After

June 30th, 2012 // 4:01 pm @

The Morning After: No Phone Call, No Text — Was It the Sex? Wednesday Jun 27, 2012 – by Craig JC The morning after you’ve had sex with someone for the first time can be one of the most sobering moments of the day: What may have once been a hazy, shrouded-in-candlelight night has come […]

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Cocktail Hour with Rae- I Missed Him Today

June 27th, 2012 // 6:00 pm @

I missed him today I had no plans of thinking about him, his smile, his hands, Nope he wasn’t in my agenda at all for this lazy Sunday afternoon.  I planned on lying in bed, rolling around, eating leftovers & watching TV on my laptop.  I got the call from my girls; “get up; we’re […]

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Position Tuesdays- Now and Zen

June 26th, 2012 // 11:03 am @

Erotic Instructions: This pose provides a quiet moment in the middle of the  mattress madness. When on the brink of the Big O, take a break from whatever  heart-pounding position you’re in and try this out as a horny holding pattern.  Roll onto your sides, face-to-face (if possible, keep him inside you the entire  time), […]

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Erotica Thursdays- A Hot Summer Day

June 22nd, 2012 // 12:40 pm @

A Hot Summer Day The thermostat had touched 96 degrees for the second day in the row and I swore I’d die if the weather continued this way. It was a sweltering, sticky, sweat as soon as you get out of the shower type of hot. The last thing on my mind was sex, but […]

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Cocktail Hour with Rae- Defeated

June 20th, 2012 // 6:00 pm @

Defeated I think I’m tricking myself into believing that the expiration date I keep pushing back into never never land is arriving faster than I’d like. To pieces I love this man, yet I’m not what he needs right now. He’s probably not what I need right now either BUT I’m definitely not what his […]

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Position Tuesdays- Rub a Dub

June 19th, 2012 // 12:36 pm @

Your man sits against the back of a tub with his legs as ?straight and wide as  possible. Squat over him, facing his feet, and lower yourself ?onto his? penis,  keeping your legs outside of his. Holding on? to? the edge of the tub for  balance, turn on the water and use your ?free hand […]

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Relationships: Where Female Insecurity and Male Insensitivity Collide

June 15th, 2012 // 12:21 pm @

Breaking News: Heterosexual men like women. Last week, Dr. J wrote a thoughtful piece called Five Ways Men Contribute to Female Insecurity. I agreed with most, if not all, of the points made but two points caused me a little heartburn: 1) Men entertain themselves with an image of women that doesn’t reflect reality and […]

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Sexy & Single in New York- Good Girl Gone Bad?

June 14th, 2012 // 1:00 pm @

Once a good girl has gone bad, she’s gone forever…I have to live with the fact I did you wrong forever- Jay Z My interpretation of “Dating vs. Come Over and Chill”, by Black Girls Are Easy, is a bit different from Sexy and Single in Atlanta.  I’m not even going to address the difference […]

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Thursday Erotica- The Masseur

June 14th, 2012 // 10:12 am @

The Masseur I loved to be doted on and Eric loved to please so we were a match made in heaven.  His body was perfect. I could stare at him for hours. He had eyes that lead you to his soul. His strong jawline and dimples had me captivated. I was a sucker for a […]

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Cocktail Hour with Rae- Heal

June 13th, 2012 // 7:09 pm @

Heal I want you to heal: Cry Laugh Smile Wrinkle your forehead Take off your glasses Close your eyes Hold on tight to the good times Lock the bad ones away in tiny box and throw it in the ocean Remember why you fell in love Appreciate the moments you shared Thank Him for allowing […]

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