Hip to the Game- Red Flags we Overlook in our 20’s and Look out for in our 30’s (#4)
May 8th, 2012 // 6:45 pm @ Janine and Alane
Infrequent calls
You accept too many excuses when you are young and when a man calls after two weeks of not contacting you with a simple, “Hey I’ve been busy with work,” you’ve forgiven him and are ready to go on another date. Later you learn that, everybody has life happening to them, and they make time for the people they care about. You essentially realize if a guy is only calling you up 2 or 3 times a month, you’re a plaything to him. And that frequency of interaction is never going to increase.
Drinks too much
When you’re young, all you care about when a guy drinks a lot is that he says cute things, gets handsy and overall pays you more attention than when he is sober because his inhibitions go down. When you get older, if a man consistently gets too drunk on dates, you see this as he does not respect you or care about you enough to stay sober so that he can actually remember the conversations you have and get to know you.
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