| Summer!: The best sex of the year. According to experts, it really is the season that brings your lust life to a boil. “Heat relaxes your muscles, heightens skin sensation, and causes you to slow down and get in touch with your more languid, sultry side,” says psychologist Stella Resnick, PhD, author of The Pleasure Zone.
Dress for the Weather
To light up your guy’s libido, treat him to his very own wet tee shirt fantasy. Put on a tissue-thin white tee or tank top and “accidentally” get wet (say, by getting sprayed by the garden hose) so that it clings alluringly to your body. Wearing a damp top will not only cool you off, it’ll also drive him loco. “Men respond strongly to visual cues,” says Resnick. “Being partially clothed creates a bit of mystery that guys find very erotic. And the sight of you in a see through top that hugs your womanly curves and showcases your breasts will really turn him on.”
Turn Off the AC
BO phobes take note: Perspiration can have an invigorating effect on your sex life. “When you sweat, mate-attracting pheromones are excreted by scent glands in your skin,” says psychiatrist Alan Hirsch, director of the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago. “Neither of you will consciously notice the pheromones, but they register in the part of your brain that controls sexual urges and triggers desire.”
Sweating also augments your own natural scent. “When you’re in love or even just in lust with somebody, there’s nothing more enticing than their smell, and the heat really amps it up,” says sexologist Lisa Douglass, coauthor of
The Sex You Want.
To tap into sweat’s seductive powers, let your bedroom’s temp get tropical, then send your man into a foreplay frenzy by massaging his body with your own. “While the sight of your flushed naked body will arouse him, men generally need firmer manhandling to become really turned on and have their pleasure pushed to the next level,” says Douglass.
With that in mind, push your breasts hard up against your guy, rubbing them across his chest and then sliding down his body with your nipples grazing his torso. To intensify your touch, deliver some frisky nips to his neck, abdomen, and buns.
Randy Raft:
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Erotic Instructions:
Climb onto a well-inflated raft in shallow water, and lie on your stomach with your butt and legs dangling over the edge. Your man should grab on to your thighs, as if he were pushing a wheelbarrow, then enter you. He can then pull you incredibly close for the deepest possible penetration.
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Why You’ll Love It:
The Randy Raft delivers a double whammy. First, your guy can move your legs up and down to vary the angle of penetration, creating alternating sensations for you. Plus, since you can’t see him, you aren’t able to anticipate his next move, which is surprisingly thrilling.
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