Hip to the Game- Red Flags we Overlook in our 20’s and Look out for in our 30’s (#2)
May 8th, 2012 // 2:41 pm @ Janine and Alane
No PDA
With guys in their early twenties, you expect them to not be totally comfortable being lovey-dovey yet. They’re still trying to prove they’re a “man.” But, later, if a man you’re dating refuses to hold your hand in public, you know it’s not really a good thing. He might have trouble being affectionate and caring in general or he cares too much about what other people think. Essentially, all things that would make a relationship with him difficult.
Fresh out of a relationship
We overlook this detail when we meet a guy in our early twenties because, well, college relationships aren’t all that serious anyways. Also, we like playing the savior to a guy with a broken heart. But as you get older, if someone tells you they’re fresh out of a year+ relationship, you realize they are still very much tied to that other person. And even if they were willing to date you, you’d be cleaning up the mess another woman made.
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