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July 3rd, 2012 // 12:15 pm @

Q.  After I have an orgasm I get really sensitive.  Sometimes I want to orgasm again, but I don’t know how.

A.  After an orgasm, many people become sensitive to direct stimulation.  In order to peak again, you should continue stimulation, directly or indirectly, using whatever type of pressure you can handle.  Once your body recovers, increase speed and or pressure to direct yourself to another pleasurable orgasm.  No two orgasms are the same and not everyone knows “how” to have multiple orgasms.  The best way to “teach” the body is to vary techniques and types of stimulation. Once you find what you like, duplicate the process and learn new steps to get you off.  Toys are a great way to teach the body both how to orgasm and to allow multiple orgasms.  The same holds true for a new partner.  Sometimes it takes time to settle into a new groove.  Practice will make perfect.  Once the body becomes accustomed to a new partner, toy, or even solo play; it will be easier and easier to peak.  Keep trying, whether alone or with a partner.  Your body will thank you!

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